Hi everyone,
Today I thought I would write about something more serious.
As you all know it’s coming to the end of 2014 and 2015 is soon coming. Loads
of people like to look back on the year and make New Year’s resolutions for the
following year. Many people like to set themselves targets to achieve within
that year.
Today I thought I would talk about pressure and self-esteem
and stuff like that. The most popular New Year’s resolution I know is to lose
weight. You might not know this but I am very insecure about my body, I
constantly feel overweight and depressed about the way I look. I see all my
friends wearing gorgeous clothes and they all look so nice and when I wear
something like them I just feel really upset because I don’t have a great
figure like them. Over the past couple months I have started to feel a lot more
comfortable within my skin. If you are unhappy with your body and you want to
lose weight or you might want to put on weight only you can make that change.
Your life was built for you to enjoy not for someone to ruin it. If someone is
making you feel depressed and insecure about the way you look, you shouldn’t be
changing for them. You do what you want to do, it’s your life, and you can make
your own rules. If you want to change the way you look that is fine, let no one
stop you. Conference comes with time,
you need to learn to accept who you are and what you are. I can tell you all
right now that you are all beautiful in your own way.
Nobody is perfect. If
someone is trying to change you just look at them and realize that they are not
perfect and you don’t need them to make you happy. The only thing that matters
in life is that you’re happy. No one can change you, so if they can’t accept
who you are, it’s them that need to change. You need to put yourself first and
think about what you want to achieve in life.
Over the last couple of years I have tried to be changed by
many people and at first I did, I changed for them and I wasn't happy. They
wanted me to act like them, to wear what they wore and to be who they were, and
in the end I just walked away.
No one should ever feel pressured into changing themselves,
you are unique, special and important. People should accept you for who you are,
not change you. The people that accept your flaws and and show their own are
the people that care about you.
This is something very close to my heart. There are so many
people in the world including me that can’t even look at themselves without
thinking negative. If this helped at least one off you than it is all worth it.
Just remember that it’s your life only you can make the changes.
I’m sorry that this wasn't a normal blog post and it was a bit depressing but I
hope that it helps someone who needs it.
Grace xx
Grace xx